h/t to for finding this gem. I've been using either Ninite or Chocolatey (http://chocolatey.org/; it's like apt-get for Windows) and haven't seen that dialog in forever but my mom just called about updating Java and I had to warn her about the "offers" they try to sneak in. Now I can just set that in the settings on anyone's PC and they won't have to worry about crapware being installed!!!
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Could this Java setting be more hidden ?